The interesting fact about debates, as opposed to arguments, is that emotions such as anger, pride or resentment that come up when we are convicted in the rightness of our position are of no value. Our personal beliefs are of no value.
I am a believer of Gandhi’s and MLK’s principles when dealing with problems of a nation. Yet I know those who would disagree with me based on the principles of open or closed society!
I believe we should never go to war to keep us safe at the expense of innocent casualties which will also be debated that the civilians in our country have the right to be safe.
“In all debates, let TRUTH be thy aim, not victory” – William Penn
I am learning I must hold space for and listen mindfully to all other truths in a debate. When they speak, I have to be present, let go of my conditioned beliefs and past experiences that arises from ego1 and create space for mindful listening. Perhaps then, I will understand and respect their fears and beliefs as they will mine.
My ideal debate to watch would be where the two parties challenge each other yet dig deeper together and discover the root cause of a problem to come up with perhaps, a solution #3.
1The self, especially as distinct from the world and other selves; the meaning you give to your life
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